July 2011
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Pathetic Guy Chronicles: Am I speaking Dutch here?
This guy clearly doesn’t understand what I’m telling him. He’s like herpes - just when you think you’ve cleared it up, it’s baaaacckkkk!
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From: Pathetic Guy
Date: July 26, 2011 6:12 PM EDT
Thanks for responding back to me but it still hurts to know I’m losing the possibility of having a great friend. I know what I did was...
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Pathetic Guy Chronicles: The Emotionally Unstable
So, just when I hoped it was over… it wasn’t. Welcome to the life of the emotionally unstable.
Email #1 - response to the last email I sent him before I wrote the kiss off letter.
This was the email I sent the night before, before my “don’t contact” me email:
So how many times should I apologize? 5 times, 50 times, a 100 times?? What’s gonna be the trick...
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Pathetic Guy Chronicles: The Response I sent
After working through my anger, this was the response I came up with, like an actual adult.
From: Me
Date: July 26, 2011 12:12 AM EDT
To: Pathetic Guy
Subject: And done.
Pathetic Guy, it’s really a shame that we couldn’t manage to be friends. I’ve apologized for our date more than I should have, in my opinion. That’s what dating is, dinner, conversation, flirting,...
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Pathetic Guy Chronicles: The Response I wish I had...
You know, I felt really bad about telling you that we had no chemistry because I really liked who you were as a person. And you just couldn’t be a man and let it go! I’ve been trying to be really nice about all of this because I didn’t want to hurt you anymore than I had to. But now, all of my feelings have been confirmed by your petty, immature, and desperate actions. So you...
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The Pathetic Guy Chronicles: The tantrum
Just when I thought I’d never hear from Pathetic Guy again, he came in like a hurricane… rain, wind, and then the storm! I’m always saying that I attract crazy people, but I don’t think people actually understand what I’m talking about. It’s not that we don’t get along, or that he has quirks, they are REALLY NUTS! Let the crazy begin…
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The Pathetic Guy Chronicles: Some people just...
Recently I met a guy through Meetup.com. It’s not a dating site, it’s a social site where you do things with people that you might have in common - like book club, cards, museums, etc. We talked on the phone a bit and then had ONE date. The date was not all I had hoped it to be and I just didn’t feel any chemistry with him. The next day, I came to the conclusion that I could...
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A year in reflection. A year of growth.
Today is my last day of being 32. It’s not a big deal to a lot of people, but for me, birthdays are a big deal. It’s a chance to change your life. I don’t make New Year’s Resolutions, I make birthday resolutions. This is my chance to better my life. My 33rd year is the time to do all I didn’t last year and all that I want to accomplish this year - and this life.
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